My parents have bought me and I have bought my self a million books about dating over the years. Now I havn't always agreed with the advice written on those pages. It did however serve as help to develop my own conclusions on what dating should be.
I believe in dating. Not as a sport, or a past time, but, as a tool to find that one person that you wish to spend the rest of your life with. I also believe in protecting your heart because thats where your life flows from.
So my first rule for dating is never.date anyone that you dont see the potential of spending the rrst of your life with. Then you give it a month to see if your compatible. After a month if you find things you couldn't spend the rest of your life with don't waste your time. you're only going to hurt yourself in the other one by getting attached to someone you don't plan on spending the rest of your life with.
Ive always thought that I would get married right out of highschool. That I would quickly start my family because life is too short. But I've learned somthing else. Life is too short, but more then that ive learned that you are only young once. All my dreams and plans for the future would not have come true if I had a family at a young age.
The last conclusion I have come too is that there are millions of people on this planets. Billions of different people who live different lifes. So why settle for anything less then the best for you. Why lower your standards just to settle down. When there are proably thoasands of people that match your perfect image of.your perfect other half.
So I guess thats another reason me and and the internet guy didnt work. We wefe together a month and I only saw him 5 times. And I would have been ok with that except he never talked to me either. A handful of texts and a couple phone calls.
I want a best friend. Someone I can spend the rest of my life talking to laughing with. Someone who wants to talk to me always. I wont settle for anything less!
A wise lady once told me to never say what you dont want because what you believe is what comes true. So I will have my happy ever after!
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